Sallies one of my thoughts was, if the mom is willing to use herbs and other natural treatments, she is willing to use treatment; therefore, chemotherapy, being a substance which is created from nature, why wouldn't she be willing to use the best medicine? 

    Arvin if this was an adult in their latter years, then there should be a consideration made, by that adult, to whether they wanted to use this substance, but with this child and like you say, "If she is willing to use herbs, why not use chemo, since it is the best medicine available to treat her child?"