Sallies the way I explain, whether I am judging others or living the Gospel is this: If I say to a person, you are fornicating, fornication is against God's word, you will be condemn to hell for fornication, now that would be judging; whereas, living the Gospel is this: I say to a person and myself, this is fornication, fornication is against God's word and we are taught, by Christ's Gospel, if we do not repent of our sinfulness, we will perish; this being the distinction I understand: so many times I am saying to myself, thinking about a certain situation, "I am not your judge."

    Arvin your efforts maybe gallant but your not taken seriously, and people basically just don't understand you.