Sallies if we the creature are conscious honest completely, many sexual instances, of thought, cross are minds; however, calling them tendencies is an attempt, at accepting them all as moral.  Now being mindful of God's word, we know, that some sexual acts are unclean, abhorrent, an abomination, but only in marriage, that being one male and one female, is the sex acts not sinful. 

   Arvin what type of sexual instances cross your mind; something, other than what you have heard or read....?